S & M
Sofia at a Venetian window overlooking the Grand Canal at dusk

We're getting married · Venice, Italy

Sofia
& Matei

Saturday, 19 September 2026, at Palazzo Contarini. Ninety of the people we like most, one long dinner, and a boat home at midnight.

Ceremony 17:00 · Dinner 19:30 · Reply by 1 July

The date
19 Sept 2026
Ceremony
17:00
Where
Palazzo Contarini
Dress
Black tie

How we got here

Nine years, three cities, one very slow decision.

A window over the Grand Canal

01

Venice, 2017

We met at a friend's birthday neither of us wanted to attend, in a bar that has since closed. Matei claims he spoke first. There is a photograph that suggests otherwise, and it is not on this website.

Dancing beneath a chandelier

02

The long middle

Two years in different countries, four flats, one difficult cat. Most of what we know about each other we learned in airports and on the phone, which is either romantic or a logistical failure depending on who is telling it.

The two of us at blue hour

03

And now, this

We came back to Venice last spring, walked past the bar that closed, and decided there was no sense waiting any longer. We would like you there — properly there, for the whole evening, with your phone in your pocket.

The day

Saturday,
19 September.

Everything happens in one building, so once you arrive you will not need to move, find a taxi, or work out where anyone has gone. The full programme, travel notes and where to stay are on the next page.

See the full programme

17:00 · The ceremony

In the courtyard, twenty minutes, in English and Romanian. Please be seated by ten to.

19:30 · Dinner

One long table in the piano nobile. Seating plan on the door — we did agonise over it.

“We have no gift list. If you are travelling to Venice for us, that is already considerably more than we would have asked for.”
Sofia & Matei

Please reply by 1 July.

Ninety seats, and we need final numbers for the palazzo eight weeks before. It takes two minutes and there are four questions.

RSVP

19 Sep 2026 · 17:00 RSVP